The rainy season lasted for an unusually long time. On a
Sunday afternoon, the 14th of January 2007, it was
drizzling lightly and the dark clouds made the sky gloomy.
In the midst of the raindrops, the Tzu Chi Free Clinic in
Singapore's Chinatown was filled with joy and laughter and
most importantly with love, as volunteers including
dentists, nurses and students worked together to give four
children from the Movement for the Intellectually Disabled
of Singapore (MINDS) a wonderful and unforgettable visit
to the dentist.
The four children, accompanied by their parents and a
few volunteers, arrived at the clinic at about 1:30. By
then, the team of dentists, dental assistants and
volunteers were all ready to welcome them in the reception
room of the clinic. For most children, dental visits may
be a horrifying event, but it was different for them this
time as they were met with big smiles and a well rehearsed
welcome song by all the volunteers.
It was heartwarming to see dentists going beyond their
professional duties and stepping out from the examination
rooms to bring joy to the children. Not only did they
tackle the dental problems of the young patients, they
also amused them and removed their fears. They thus
practised the words of Master Cheng Yen, who advised
people to give a sense of fearlessness to those who needed
it.
Though big in size, Huang Zhi Bing was a very shy boy.
Upon seeing the clinic crowded with volunteers, he refused
to go in. The volunteers tried different methods to
persuade him to go in, but to no avail as he sat down in
the corridor outside the clinic. Dr. Elizabeth Tan
squatted down with him, looked him in the eye, and said in
a gentle but assertive tone, "Zhi Bing, look at
me.... Do you want to learn how to properly brush your
teeth? Then come with me." Under such an enticing
persuasion, plus the encouragement of his friend Gao Song
from MINDS, he finally agreed to go in.
However, that was not the end of the commotion. The boy
was so afraid of having his teeth checked that he kept
struggling in the dental chair. The dentists tried to
comfort him by holding his hands and giving him a toy. Dr.
Xu Zhen Xing even sang songs to calm him down so that he
could take a look at his teeth.
While the dentist and dental assistants were busy at
work, volunteers accompanied the children and their
parents who were waiting outside the ward. A few members
of the Tzu Chi Collegiate Youth Association were there to
do colouring with them. One of the children, Sheng Chun,
who was done with the dental appointment, even made jokes
with the volunteers. Some Tzu Chi volunteers chatted with
the children's parents, relieving some of their tension
because they were worried about their children creating a
commotion inside the dental clinic. Dr. Eugene Tang came
out to distribute sweets. The room was filled with
laughter, and we could sense a rich display of human
warmth and love. No matter whether they were doctors or
college students, the volunteers wore big smiles on their
faces as they tried to bring relaxation and joy to the
children by behaving as their peers.
On the dental chair, Gao Song was having a hard time.
He was the eldest of four children, and his hair was as
cleanly shaved as if he plucked it strand by strand when
it grew too long. Gao Song had a decayed tooth and needed
to have an anaesthesia injection before having it pulled
out. He was so frantic about it that he gave the excuse
that he needed to go to the toilet after the injection.
Things did not get better after he came back. He kept
moving around, refusing to let the dentists pull his tooth
even though the volunteers kept comforting him. He ran out
of the room and sat there frowning, unhappy that he needed
to go through such a painful process. Jia Kang, a
volunteer from MINDS, managed to persuade him to go back
to the room. "Sometimes it is really hard to get them
to do what they must," he said, "but we always
try our best to understand what their fears are and what
they want, and that works sometimes." Even though the
disabled children may not be able to understand the
situation most of the time, it is the volunteers' duty to
empathise and communicate with them.
The commotion continued as Gao Song ran out of the
examination room for the third time. Normally, one would
think that the dentists would have given up, as it was too
much trouble to treat such a naughty patient who so
strongly refused to be treated. However, the dentists
never gave up on him. They too went out of the room to
talk to Gao Song, holding the dental instruments in their
hands.
Dr. Xu felt that he just had to face the problem with
Gao Song and let him know clearly what they needed to do
since it was a rare chance for the MINDS children to see
the dentists. Dr. Xu was determined to help Gao Song get
rid of the decayed tooth despite all the difficulties. By
this time, the anaesthesia had worn off and he needed to
have another shot. Dr. Xu made up a story and told him
that they needed to give him an injection so that his
teeth would fall asleep quietly so that the worm in his
tooth could be driven away without any pain. After much
struggle, the perseverance and patience of the dentists
and volunteers paid off as they managed to extract the
decayed tooth. Everyone cheered when Gao Song felt
relieved from all the anxiety and fear.
Meanwhile, Zhi Bing, who was the most shy initially,
walked around the clinic happily on his own, and he even
requested to have his teeth checked once again. He smiled
widely as Dr. Tang gave him a big hug. It must have been
the result of the medical volunteers' spirit of compassion
that they could heal the patients' illnesses and their
hearts as well.
Finally, the event ended at four, and the four
children--Zhi Bing, Kao Song, Sheng Choon and Jun Wei--were
all ready to go back home, proudly carrying their gifts
from the dentists. Despite the commotion and fear of
seeing the dentists, it must have been an enjoyable and
memorable visit to the dentists at the Tzu Chi Free
Clinic. Dr. Xu, who came together with his wife, Lee Tien
Li, and his son, remarked that he felt very happy to be
able to help the children. This was the second time he
came to volunteer at Tzu Chi. He felt that the
organisation had a strong positive influence on him, and
he had waited for a chance to volunteer here again. Though
the couple were not Buddhists, they respected Master Cheng
Yen and felt that she was a force that drove them to come
serve again. They even brought their child along, hoping
he would receive the positive influence too. When some
volunteers praised the couple for their contribution, Dr.
Xu said: "We are all equally important in this event,
whether a doctor or just a student. Each and every one of
us plays our part and contributes to the success of the
whole event." His humility and understanding of the
team spirit that Master Cheng Yen emphasizes are really
worth bearing in mind by all of us.
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