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I am a seventh-grade science teacher at Nelsen Middle
School, just outside Seattle, Washing-ton. Teaching young
people is one of my passions. Another of my passions is
serving as a volunteer editor for the Tzu Chi Quarterly.
My work with the Quarterly and other Tzu Chi publications
allows me to read a wide variety of inspirational stories.
Some of them are written by Master Cheng Yen, others by
talented staff members in the Tzu Chi Foreign Languages
Department, still others by compassionate Tzu Chi
volunteers or the people they help. I never suspected that
an article of my own would one day be included among these
great stories of compassion and inspiration. Even more
incredible is what led to this article--a broken water
heater.
I was introduced to Tzu Chi by my friend and colleague
in my science department, Nelly Tsai. She is also a Tzu
Chi commissioner and my mentor when it comes to the work
and philosophy of the foundation. In fact, I joined Tzu
Chi because of how well she represented the spirit of
Master Cheng Yen and Tzu Chi in every aspect of her life.
One afternoon, Nelly and I were talking about having to
spend our own money on school supplies. Having to chip in
and purchase supplies out of our own pocket is not
uncommon. It seems incredible, but the amount of money we
are allotted per student is about $1.80 per year! Given
that meager amount, it shouldn't be surprising that we
often buy supplies for our lab classes with our own money.
In the course of our conversation, Nelly said,
"You know, I don't mind spending money on students.
Money doesn't really belong to me...It comes and goes, and
I just help direct it. I have everything I need. If I
spend money on something worthwhile, I can feel good about
where it goes."
Well, that got me to thinking. "Money doesn't
really belong to me... It comes and it goes, and I just
help direct it." I thought that simple statement was
very wise. So, I tucked that thought away in my heart and
decided to be more mindful of the money that I made,
spent, and saved.
Early the next morning, a Saturday, I awoke and
prepared to take my dog for his morning walk. As soon as I
stepped into the garage from my house, I heard a very
strange noise from the water heater. I retrieved a
flashlight, looked underneath, and saw that the water
heater was leaking a stream of water about the diameter of
a pencil. Furthermore, the water input line kept filling
the water heater as fast as it ran out! There was already
a puddle of water around the bottom of the water heater,
growing larger by the second as I watched and wondered
just what had happened.
Despite the early hour, I kept my wits and reacted
fairly quickly. First, I shut off the natural gas, and
then the water. Next, I connected a hose to the water
heater and quickly drained out the remaining water into
the street. All of that took only a minute or two. Thank
goodness the plumber I called was willing to work on a
Saturday. He arrived 30 minutes after I called, and was
able to replace the water heater with a new one then and
there. (I can assure you, I felt pretty lucky. I was
wondering which neighbor we would call upon to use their
shower that day!)
The bill for the new water heater and installation was
$1,560. Here it was, before nine on a Saturday morning,
and I had already spent over fifteen hundred dollars. This
was certainly not one of my typical Saturday mornings!
But can you guess my feeling at that time? Pure
happiness! That's right. Not only was I happy to write the
check to the plumber and pay him, but I was so eager to do
so that he had to tell me to put the checkbook away and
wait until the work was actually finished! I wanted to pay
him even before he had removed his tools from his truck.
No, I'm not crazy. I just kept thinking about what Nelly
had said the day before: "Money doesn't really belong
to me... It comes and it goes, and I just help direct
it." In my mind, this situation was a perfect
opportunity to show that money didn't have control of my
heart.
That morning, as I sat across the table from the
plumber, receiving the repair estimate, I remembered one
of my favorite Still Thoughts aphorisms from Master Cheng
Yen: "If a smile and a frown are both possible, why
not choose a smile?" Therefore, instead of being
upset that I had to spend so much money, I decided to find
and focus on all the positive things that were happening
that morning. In short, I chose to smile in the
circumstances instead of frowning. And do you know what?
To my surprise, I kept discovering blessing after blessing
hidden within the whole experience! I'd like to share some
of my "blessings from a broken water heater"
with you. Maybe my experience can open your eyes to the
blessings that surround you as well, even in the midst of
misfortune.
Blessing #1: I think that, based upon the size of the
puddle, I must have walked into the garage within just a
few minutes after the leak started. What if the leak had
started in the middle of the night? My whole garage would
have been flooded, and the water damage might have been
much worse. What if the water heater had blown while my
wife and I were away at work--or worse, on vacation?!?
What if the water heater had been located in our closet
instead of the garage? It might have flooded our house and
ruined our hardwood floor and everything in the closet. If
the water heater had to die, it was a blessing it broke
when it did, where it did.
Blessing #2: It was me that discovered the leak, not my
wife. Although my wife is smarter than me in almost every
respect, this time I had the presence of mind to know
exactly what to do without panicking. Had my wife
discovered the water heater leak, she likely would have
panicked and would not have known the steps to take to
minimize the damage.
Blessing #3: The plumber told me that the normal life
for my water heater was about 10 to 12 years. My water
heater was 15 or 16 years old, so I had really gotten more
life from it than expected. How can I complain about an
old water heater lasting three to five more years than
expected?
Blessing #4: The money I paid to the plumber will help
support him, his family, and his business. Sitting in my
bank account, that $1,560 was doing NOTHING good! Now, the
money is out and about, bringing goods and services to
other people. The money that used to be mine now can be
used to help other people!
Blessing #5: The new water heater is more energy
efficient, saving natural gas and fuel expenses in the
long run. Using the earth's natural resources more wisely
appeals to me on many levels, including Master Cheng Yen's
encouragement to respect the earth and the environment.
This is truly a blessing.
Blessing #6: The new water heater will work better than
the old one, with a quicker recovery time. This means it
will make hot water faster when we use it, so no more cold
showers after the kids!
Blessing #7: The new water heater has many safety
features that the old one did not have, reducing the
chance of a fire, explosion, or broken pipe. Maybe the new
safety features will avoid a terrible accident that might
have happened otherwise.
Blessing #8: Spending that amount of money unexpectedly
reminds me how important it is to plan for the unexpected
accident and to use what money I have wisely. I will be
less likely to waste money on "frivolous" things
if I remember this incident.
Blessing #9: The whole experience confirms Nelly's wise
observation that "Money comes and money goes,"
and it helps me to not become attached to the money in my
bank account.
Blessing #10: The experience allows me to share with
you all of the above blessings. This account has become a
vehicle by which you might also be encouraged or inspired
to look for the blessings in your own life. In the end,
this may be the most significant blessing of all. Like a
stone dropped into a still pond, the ripples of this
experience may continue to spread long after the
experience itself is over.
So, what at first seemed to be a terrible bit of
misfortune for a Saturday morning turned out to contain so
many blessings that I couldn't help but overflow with joy
and happiness! I may be $1,560 poorer than I was when I
woke up that morning, but I am so much richer within! It
is as if a whole garden of blessings bloomed before my
eyes, and it only cost me $1,560 for the experience.
That's pretty cheap, if you ask me.
Whenever anything "bad" or
"unfortunate" happens to me, I always stop to
look for the hidden blessings. Without fail, I usually
discover far more than I ever expected to find. It makes
me wonder if the "unfortunate" things in life
are really life's blessings! I share this story with you,
dear reader, so that if your water heater breaks, or your
oven stops working, or your car needs a new fan belt, or
whatever...you'll remember my story, and remember to look
for the hidden blessings that exist around you all the
time.
And remember the Master's words: "If a smile and a
frown are both possible, why not smile?"
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