"With
love in your heart, you will never get old," explains
Theresa Xu (許哲).
"The reason I remain young is because I have no
intention of becoming old."
She was born in 1898 to a poor family in Canton
Province, China. At the age of 27, she went to an
elementary school, but as a janitor instead of a student.
Nevertheless, she persevered and at the age of 47 moved to
London in hopes of studying nursing so she could help poor
and elderly patients in war-torn China. Initially she was
denied admission to the nursing school on account of her
age--the standard limit was 25 years--but undeterred,
Teresa wrote to the principal and explained she intended
to learn nursing as a means of "helping as many
patients as possible, not for earning money." Touched
by her pureness of heart, the principal gave in.
Her amazing feats do not stop here, however. Unable to
return to China, she helped the poor and needy in
Paraguay, Singapore, and many other nations. At the age of
67 she learned to practice yoga, at 90 she studied
Buddhist sutras, and at 100 she delved into Chinese
literature.
Unselfish giving and compassion towards the needy is a
distinguishing trait amongst all her family members.
Teresa's great-grandfather was a devout Christian and
embodied Jesus Christ's instruction to "Love your
neighbor as yourself." Her mother taught her children
to unselfishly share food with any beggars who came to
their doorway. Her younger brother became a Catholic
priest and devoted his whole life to serving the needy
until he died in 1973. Her older sister generously
supported her in setting up nursing homes for the elderly
in Singapore.
I liked Teresa even before I first met her. The
profound compassion, love, and determination which
inspired her actions so moved me that I agreed to serve as
her interpreter on October 5, 2004, when she visited the
Tzu Chi office in Taipei to share her secret of longevity.
On that crisp autumn evening, Teresa was greeted with
applause and songs of welcome sung by Tzu Chi people and
members of a local yoga association. I was stunned by her
radiant smile and slow but stable walk. Petite and
gray-haired, she demonstrated the unencumbered manner and
serenity only apparent in senior spiritual cultivators.
Even more amazing, she looked at least 30 years younger
than her 107 years.
We wanted to give Theresa a better understanding of the
work of the Tzu Chi Foundation, so we showed her a
documentary conveying Tzu Chi's origins, philosophy, and
relief work throughout the world. Afterwards we proceeded
to the lecture hall, where more than 400 people eagerly
awaited her arrival.
"You are about to share your life wisdom and
secret of longevity with us," I remarked to her
before we walked up onto the stage.
"Oh, those are just pebbles," she replied
humbly, with a big smile.
I occasionally helped translate her English expressions
into Chinese, but it turned out that Teresa could speak
quite well in Mandarin. She shared with us her fascinating
experiences in helping the poor, and she amazed us with an
impromptu demonstration of five challenging yoga motions,
which she performed with grace and agility.
In response to questions raised from the audience,
Teresa calmly said, "It is unhealthy to bear
unpleasant emotions in mind. Many people get upset or
angry when they fail to get what they want. I want nothing
and therefore don't get mad easily."
When asked about the secret of longevity, she
confessed, "I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle
because I don't want to bother others by making them look
after me. As for longevity, I didn't ask for it. It was
given to me by Grandfather Heaven, who wants me to serve
as many people as possible. I am a vegetarian, and I don't
eat anything cooked over a high flame since all the
nutrients will be gone."
She continued, "I have no special religious
affiliation. If you like, you can call me a believer of
love and conscience. My faith is based on giving
unconditionally. When the poor and sick come to me, the
most important thing for me to do is to serve them food,
not religion."
Indeed, Teresa is a bodhisattva in this world. She
demonstrates with her own life the Buddha's teachings of
wisdom and love.
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