The
Tang Dynasty poet, Ho Chih-chang, wrote: "One leaves
home when one is young and comes home when one is old. One
still speaks with the country accent, but the hair around
the temples is withered." The past is still vivid to
him, but nothing can be brought back... Nevertheless,
Grandpa Li still loves his family and friends, and he is
strongly attached to the soil and things from the past. It
seems that passing time cannot shake his love even one
bit.
Tzu Chi members call him "Grandpa Li," but
his name is Li Tsung-chi. Although he comes from Xiamen,
Fujian Province, China, he has spent the majority of his
life here in Taiwan. Xiamen is where he was born, and
Taiwan is where he settled down, married and founded his
company.
Speaking of his company, Grandpa Li is a very
successful businessman. His cargo ships travel across all
the seas and contribute greatly to Taiwan's economy.
As for his personal spiritual cultivation, Grandpa Li
is a great philanthropist. He has provided scholarships to
teachers and students in Xiamen, and he has given much of
his wealth and concern to people around the world. He
never hesitates to donate to Tzu Chi, and he asks for
nothing in return. He has won the respect and love of all
Tzu Chi members.
Grandpa Li likes to go to sleep early and wake up
early. However, whenever he joins us on a relief mission
to China, his regular sleep pattern is completely ruined:
we have to travel long distances, and we have irregular
schedules and long meetings late in the night. This is
very inconvenient for him. Nevertheless, without
exception, he always goes with us and personally oversees
all details.
Grandpa Li is tall and big and moves rather slowly, but
I have never heard him say that he was tired. When a
relief mission involves climbing mountains or wading
through rivers, all the young people complain, but Grandpa
Li never utters a word. We all know he is over seventy
years old and weighs more than a hundred kilograms [220
pounds]. He has high blood pressure and diabetes. A long
journey must be a torment for him, but he prefers to
endure all the discomfort instead of letting other people
worry about him.
We travel around disaster areas during the day and have
meetings at night. With so many things to do and so many
people around, the meetings tend to go well beyond his
bedtime. We often invite him to go ahead and get to bed,
but he pretends that it is nothing and he tries to stay
awake with us. It is not until he absolutely can no longer
stay awake that he apologizes and leaves us.
When we watch his enormous body rise up from the seat,
it is like watching a mountain rise up. When he slowly
walks out of the meeting room, a loud noise seems to
resonate from the giant's every step. Each loud noise
shakes the deepest part of our hearts.
Grandpa Li's voice is clear and forceful, like a church
bell, and his personality is straightforward. He always
keeps his promise, and this makes a good impression on
those who have had contact with him. People feel they can
trust him. If two parties have an argument and can't reach
an agreement, a word from Grandpa Li settles the dispute.
Grandpa
Li loves Taiwan because he got married in Taiwan, worked
in Taiwan and became successful in Taiwan. However, he
also loves his hometown, Xiamen, because he was born and
grew up there.
He loves his hometown and is attached to his past. If
you ask him about his hometown and his childhood, he
suddenly becomes very energetic and talks non-stop.
In Xiamen, he still has a sister, her husband, their
children, and many relatives and friends. In the early
days, their lives were rather difficult, so Grandpa Li
would always help them solve their problems.
His old, broken-down home was rebuilt; his
brother-in-law's crude home was renovated, and the lives
of his old friends and relatives improved a great deal.
However, he never expresses any arrogance just because he
has done so much for them. His contributions have never
changed his affection towards his relatives and friends
and compassion towards other people.
What touches us the most is that whenever he goes back
to Xiamen, he always lives in his old house. Although the
old house is not as well equipped as a modern hotel, he
still cannot part from his affection towards his hometown,
the soil, his home, and the people.
Once I went with him to his old home, located in the
busiest district of Xiamen. His brother-in-law was living
there. The house was hidden away in a small alley so
narrow that only one person could walk through . No one
could find this place without some help.
Several of us followed Grandpa Li through this narrow
alley. We walked up some stairs and a tiny, traditional,
U-shaped house appeared before us. The center room was the
living room, and the rooms to the right and left were the
bedrooms. The rooms were not very big, and it was rather
crowded with five people in a room.
Grandpa Li was rather happy that day. He showed me the
"honeymoon suite," where he and his wife sleep
whenever they come to Xiamen. The room was only 106 square
feet, and it contained an old wooden bed with a mosquito
net. When his 220-pound body lies on the bed, it squeals
with the weight, but Grandpa Li still loves it.
We are touched by his powerful affection toward the
past. That affection has become engraved in his bones.
He lives a luxurious life in Taiwan, his business is
booming, and his children are following in his footsteps.
But he still cannot forget the people and things in his
hometown.
He took time to wander around the elementary school he
once attended. He has taken the time to find out where his
old teachers are, and he also learned what the school
needed. He felt melancholy about all the renovations that
the school needed, and he was saddened to learn about the
demise of former teachers and classmates.
Whenever he talks about his school years, it is enough
for him to dwell in deep thoughts. Those times were hard,
but it is still a sweet memory. After he finished
elementary school, he could not continue his education.
Poverty cut off his path to junior high school, and
national calamities ruined his hopes for further study. No
wonder he is deeply attached to his only alma mater. No
wonder he has provided thousands of scholarships for
students every year and financial assistance for hundreds
of teachers who earn a low income.
Grandpa Li's passion for his hometown is especially
manifest in his love for its products. He talks with great
relish about the local food. Actually, Xiamen-style dishes
are also available in Taiwan. The same specialties may
even be more refined in Taiwan than in Xiamen, but Grandpa
Li still prefers food products imported from that city.
The only reason is just that he loves his hometown.
Whenever
we go with him to Xiamen, he always considers himself the
host, simply because Xiamen is his home. As the host, he
makes sure his guests feel at home. And he always wants
his guests to enjoy the taste of local food.
When Tzu Chi was holding free clinics in Xiamen, he
stayed at his old home while the other volunteers stayed
in a hotel. Without concern for the distance from his home
to the hotel, he told us that he would prepare our
breakfast each day. And indeed, he always rushed to the
hotel with plastic bags of food and an insulated pot.
He opened the pot and scooped up bowls of peanut soup
for us. Then he opened the bags and took out all kinds of
snacks made with green beans, red beans, black sesame
seeds, etc.
He urged us to drink the soup while it was hot, and he
told us that the peanut soup was made at a very old,
traditional store. The green bean cakes were special
products of Xiamen, the red bean cakes were well-known in
Xiamen, and the black sesame seed buns were hard to come
by. In his eyes, everything from his hometown was special
and perfect.
He especially likes xianbing from Xiamen, a baked pie.
Those who have eaten one know that a xianbing from Xiamen
never betrays Grandpa Li's love for it. It is not greasy,
not too sweet or too salty, and it melts in your mouth.
Local residents love it, and people from Taiwan like it
too.
No wonder that whenever we leave Xiamen, Grandpa Li
always forces us to take with us some boxed xianbing. No
guests may refuse, because it would be disrespectful,
especially to his hometown. If you don't respect him, he
can take that. However, if you don't respect his hometown,
he can become furious. This is his love towards his
hometown.
There is a Chinese poem about a person leaving and
returning to his hometown. The first two lines from the
poem go like this: "One leaves home when one is young
and comes home when one is old. The accent is there, but
the hair around the temples is withered." Everything
changes and the past cannot be brought back, but Grandpa
Li still thinks dearly of his old friends and relatives
and still stubbornly loves the soil and products of his
hometown. It seems that passing time cannot shake his
devotion even one bit. Grandpa Li is Xiamen.
Born in Xiamen, Fujian Province in
1926, Grandpa Li came to Taiwan in 1949. Although a
successful businessman in the shipping industry, he still
regrets not being able to attend school when he was
younger. Vowing to nurture experts in maritime affairs, he
established many scholarships for poor students to learn
about shipping and aquatic products. He joined Tzu Chi
when he was sixty years old and has contributed
generously. He often participates in Tzu Chi overseas
relief missions. His daughters, Li Chia-ying and Li Yi-hui,
are Tzu Chi commissioners. In 1999, at the recommendation
of Tzu Chi, Grandpa Li received the first National Civic
Service Award in recognition of his moral virtues and
public contributions. |